- date the kind of people who will still respect you when you no longer love them
- date the kind of people who will still respect you when they no longer love you
- do not waste your emotional capacities on people whose respect for you is conditional
this is terribly important
Today, a stranger told me that I shouldn’t wear tank tops in public since it’s “in bad taste” if I’m not going to “take care of myself.”
I’m going to choose to believe that she was just referring to how much muscle mass I’ve gained this year. I mean, look at these guns. They’re not lethal yet, but I can understand her concern - If I don’t take care, they’re likely to chokehold the people who are rude enough to comment on my body.
Free the pits